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36-40,
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writes:My girlfriend has a best friend who she is really close to. She's female. But my girlfriend goes to her whenever she is sad or whenever she is worried and talks it through with her. She speaks to her always before or sometimes instead of me. Should this be something to worry about, am I being a bad boyfriend?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 All I can tell you is that you have to try and be the best boyfriend you can be. But do not worry or be offended that she confides in her best friend more than she does with you right now because that can change. Just focus on making her happy when she is with you and you will know that it isn't because you are a bad boyfriend. You can also let her know that she can tell you everything, because right now she might think that if she went to you for everything she would seem clingy or whiny. Just let her know and see what happens.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): she not putting her friend before you, sometimes its easier to talk to someone who might know exactly what your going throuh and sometimes this is a girl. Also your not being a bad boyfirend, just be there for her when she needs to talk to you, trust me there will be times when she does. I have a friend, whos a girl, who i tell everthing to and she is the same with me, its not that i dont tell my man these things but get more reassurance about girl things from her. hope this puts your mind at rest!
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