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writes:is it ok to be mad at your boy friend if he said he'd stay at your house then go to this other girls house,by the way he had sex with her this is befor he met me...kinda pissed off Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): hii...
absolutely!!! you have every right to be mad at this guy!!! i mean, he said that he would stay with you--his GIRLFRIEND--and instead, he stayed with this other girl (with whom he has previously been sexually involved with). that would piss me off, too.
HOWEVER, even though you have the right to be mad, i don't think that you should keep on doing it. if i was in your shoes, i would talk everything out with this guy and see what's up. let him know how you're feeling; don't just wait for him to realize, "ohh, she's mad at me!!!" because with as slow as the male mind works...it could take a while. hahaa...buuut i would definitely say that this is something that the two of you need to discuss.
good luck, and God bless,
~sarsar~
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reader, UnderageMonstrosity  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 Hrm, well if he said he was going to your house, I would assume you would be pretty P.O if he went to hers instead, unless he texted you he was, but it was really meant for her.
But, talk to him, don't make any rash choices, what happened in the past is the past, if you truely believes he likes you enough to be with you, talk to him. Obviously 13-15 is a bit young to be having sex, but these days not a lot of kids are waiting, it was before he met you anyways, don't judge him. Trust is a major component of a relationship remember that.
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reader, Dawson lover  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 i wouldn't blame him because it's not like he cheated but if he stayed at her house while we were together i would be angery too.
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