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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ive been with my boyfriend a year now. Im not sure if i have experianced a orgasm? When his played with my clit ive had a amazing sensation that i feel i cant handle and the feeling of needing to wee? But i feel like it could go further, have i reached the point or can i enjoy it more??
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reader, StraightTalker +, writes (14 October 2010):
Yep this sounds like an orgasm :-)
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (14 October 2010):
An orgasm is that point you reach that feels soooo sweet for some seconds and then it goes down; and usually after that point you dont want to continue coz the clit is too sensitive. Thats known as the refractory period. Have you experienced that?
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reader, anonymous818  +, writes (14 October 2010):
Well, when you have the sensation too urinate..its actually not urine its another fluid that is your type of ejaculation. If you let yourself "pee" you will feel the full sensation of the orgasm. Also, about an inch and a half inside of you you have a little dome shaped thing some people call it the G spot but I know that when I pleasure my girlfriend she loves it when I get her there and that is where the best orgasms come from. Hope that helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): Me too.
If it feels good who cares.
You might have had one, you might not have.
You may get one if you haven't.
Just keep sex'n.
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (14 October 2010):
 Orgasms can be hard to explain seeing as how they are not all exactly the same for women. But, what you are experiencing probably is an orgasm. The best way to tell for sure is to give yourself one. Masturbation will also allow to find out what you like and what you don't. You can get toys at many different places and even online.
Or you can ask your boyfriend to try different things. Just tell him you are not sure if you've never had an orgasm and would like to try and see what pleases you the most. He may be put off at first, but to know that he will be the first guy to please you that way will make it all ok. Have him try hitting the spot just inside and up a little with his fingers, most women like that spot.
Hope it all goes well for you, and remember to relax and let it come naturally. If it's all you think about achieving, you will have a hard time getting there. Focus on the pleasure :)
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