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male
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: Hi, guys. There is this girl that I really,really, really like at my school and I kinda thought that she might like me. You see, we had gotten to know each other pretty well and we went places outside of school, texted A LOT, said hi to each other at school, etc. The last time I talked to her was last week Thursday, she didn't come to school on Friday, and I didn't want to seem desperate or clingy, so I didn't text her that weekend. On Monday, we saw each other multiple times and, with me being kind of a shy person, I didn't say anything to her and she didn't say anything to me. Today is Tuesday and the same thing happened, we had some kind of awkward eye-to-eye contact, but we walked past each other multiple times with no one saying a word. She was talking to her friends and I was talking to mine; none of us said anything. I don't know, I thought that she used to like me, by her body actions, she laughed at all my stupid jokes, invited me to go places with her, and even used to say my name, followed with "licious!" So, if my name was Jake, it would be "Jakelicious!" But, now, we haven't talked at all in a while, so I really don't wanna lose what we had and I wanna take it farther, but I don't know if it is already too late...I was thinking about texting her today, but I don't wanna seem like a text-whore, you know, someone who is too scared to talk to her in real life, so I just do it through texts. All i'm asking is: "Is it too late to salvage what we had and take it farther? If so, how?" Please, help me.....Thank you so much in advance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): She probably feels the same way but as you know girls like it when the guy asks the girl out, its only natural. You not texting her over the weekend, she might have felt that you changed your mind so thats why things have been awkward. You should just start speaking to her how you normally would, and all the weirdness would just go. I hope I helped :)
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