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anonymous
writes:Hi, um to cut a long story short at the start of college i really liked this guy and i think he liked me too we had just started speaking and things he got my number and everything was going quite well, then we were talking via the internet and he tells me he's just started seeing this other girl and he didnt want to lead me on and things, so i backed off a bit although i still really liked him. then a few days later he started texting me and talking to me online again just like before, so i was like oh though you weren't trying to lead me on?! then we got close again and he told me the same thing that he's got a girlfriend and thats why he's stopeed talking to me. it's strange because everyday at college he is always taking glances at me all my friends tell me and i have caught him out a few times aswell, we are still on good terms he smiles i smile type of thing. i'm just really really confused if he's with this other girl then why does he keep looking at me? it's like every ten seconds even from across the room, im not complaining because i really like him still and its nice to get the attention but i know this can't lead anywhere and i just don't know what his game is. he is genuinely and honest guy not a 'player' type i'm confused and don't know what to think... any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): He knows how i feel about him we got quite close before he told me about his girlfriend, obviously i would never let anything happen while he's with his girlfriend but i still really like him and the way he looks as me, my friends have told me that he can't be happy in his relationship if he's still scouting around. but he really isn't the type to play games but i guess all guys are the same one way or another. thank you for your answers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): The same thing is happening to me and I just choose to ignore it and if you can't confront this guy and tell him how you feel about him
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): Walk away and focus on other things, until you are sure he's not in another relationship otherwise it will happen to you...he'll be in a relationship with you and texting someone else. Plenty of fun out there just don't do it at another gals expense.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 October 2010):
My suggestion is that he's a young man who has a lot of things on his mind - mostly sex. He likes her, and he likes you. So it's best to remain somewhat distant. You don't want him to dump her for you, only for him to play games with you as well.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 His behavior indicates interest and is really inappropriate for someone who is in a relationship. I think you need to lay down the law as it were. Tell him that you're only interested in continuing the communications if something is going to come of it. You don't want to be led on anymore.
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