A
female
age
30-35,
*sbfan_4
writes: There is a guy that I like, and it seemed like he liked me back. We met each other last year, I have had a crush on him since then but never told him. We would flirt with each other all the time. I had told him that I like him back in Apirl and had asked him if he wanted to go to prom together. We have talked about us dating several times too. The is the only guy that has met anyone else in my family besides my parents and my brother. It's been almost 2 months since we have talked like we use too. Should I get the courge to ask him out?? I'm tired of waiting around for him, even though I'm sure I will.
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reader, Ricemonster +, writes (14 October 2010):
Let's look at it this way:
1) If you don't ask him out, it will bother you forever, until you see him with another girl, then you'll start regretting. This is a common issue as you no doubt have seen a zillion times here at DearCupid.
2) If you DO ask him out, there is a chance he may reject you, but there is also a chance he will accept you. If he rejects you, then you'll know FOR SURE you don't need to get worked up on this again. If he accepts you, then you'll know FOR SURE that something can come out of this. Whatever happens in the next while, totally depends on how your relationship grows.
So, which of these two possibilities look for appealing?
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