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*onligirl
writes: I was in my last relationship for almost 8 years. I had a child with him within the 7th year we were together, of and on. When my child was 3 month, I moved out because I was stressed with all the problems we were having. I moved out with the intentions we can both make better of our situation, and grow deeper in love, and possibly get married. We still did things together with our kids, as a family, and we remained intimate, just in seperate households, until one day I find out he moved a girl into his home, that we use to share. Our baby was 1 yr by this time. Its been 2 yrs since we have been apart, he still lives with this other woman, and they have a 4mth old child. I just can't phanthom he fell out of love with me so easily. Is this possible. Could he really have fell out of love with me and so in love with someone else, after all these years?
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reader, lonligirl +, writes (15 October 2010):
lonligirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your feedback guys and gals. It feels good to know that there are people out there who don't think that I'm totally dillusional.
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reader, Madalo 1 +, writes (13 October 2010):
I cant tell what he's thinking but he'll remember you one day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): Yes, it is quite possible he was just maybe content or unhappy in the relationship and didnt come forth to speak about anything and instead went and found some dumb bimbo. This isnt your fault. If he had issues in the relationship he should have come forth, its not like you can read minds. Keep your head up..and i know thats not easy. Chances are this guy is setting himself up for disaster. Repair, recover...and RENEW yourself. This guy doesnt seem to have his shoulders squared and you deserve better XD
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reader, Kenj +, writes (13 October 2010):
Maybe he fell out of love a long time before, maybe he found someone else well before the break up or maybe its just a rebound reaction and it wont last.
I am guessing rebound love, its the worst kind and people just end up getting hurt more.
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