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writes:My bf gives me oral quite a lot. And I always apologise if it's not fresh down there. But he always always "It's fine, don't worry" and continues about his business. Does he really think that or does he just do it not to offend me? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt tri +, writes (13 October 2010):
All women have a scent its I'm possible not to unless you are freshly washed which a wide percentage of men do not appreciate a freshly washed vagina they are greatly turned on by the scent its completely natural and men have odours to so relax go with the flow and do not apologise you will give yourself a complex! Lay back and enjoy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): What dirtball said. What many women dont realize is that the smell of a naturally smelling vagina is totally intoxicating to most men. It is a primal, pheromone thing. When you wash, you remove that natural smell and replace it with...lavender or something. Still nice, but not necessarily better. Just keep it clean of discharge, pee and such, and he'll love it. If he doesn't he will either not go there anymore, or he will tell you.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 Why do you ask him, just clean yourself down there before he goes to action and it won't be an issue either way. Yes, if you smell, he could be polite and not tell you. If you have been together for a longer time he will probably be honest with you if it smells. But if it's a light smell he might just try and ignore it for politeness.
But give yourself a break so you can relax. It is common procedure to rinse up first, and it would be rude to not rinse before anyone goes down there (this goes for guys as well!). Especially if you have just used the bathroom you can smell like pee. So yes, do rinse. A quick splash of pure water is enough. Don't use soaps unless they are special soaps for the intimate region. But water alone freshens it up and makes it smell-free. Just take a towel and hold it under between your legs, take water in the other hand and rinse. Simple, quick and easy.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 A tidbit from history -- When Napoleon was returning home from a campaign, when he was two or three days away from Paris he'd send Josephine a note: Don't bathe.
A girl who's healthy and whose general hygiene is good has nothing to worry about. Tastes better than soap, trust me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): Relax and enjoy it and quit apologizing, unless you really don't like it. Maybe you are really not getting enjoyment from it...don't fake it, just direct him to something you enjoy more.
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reader, shnookims  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 If he didn't enjoy it, he probably wouldn't do it. Dirtball is right, maybe it turns him on.
I also get self conscious sometimes, but I know for a fact that my guy doesn't do what he doesn't enjoy doing, even if I enjoy it.
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reader, sweetlove  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 I agree with the man below me, and also i am sure you would know if it smelled bad, because your guy wouldnt give you oral.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (13 October 2010):
 I love the smell and taste, even if it hasn't been freshened up immediately before. Actually, that odor is a natural turn on for most men since it signifies being ready to mate. It is actually pretty primal.
He is very likely not lying to you. As long as you are taking care of your general hygene, don't worry if you don't feel the freshest, he's not worried about it!
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