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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010): If yo waS still deeply in love with youre eX then yo would not want to go with man nUmber 2 in the FirST PLAce. I THInk you are confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): Have you slept with the man that threatened you since aswell?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): has anything happened yet? decent men don t make threats.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2010): Goes without saying there is two sides to every story. How can anyone get honest advice if its not a honest question?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): i am the person who this is about. firstly, i am not harassing her boyfriend. it wasnt 6 weeks before she met him. i am led to believe it was the same evening we broke up.we are not together so she shouldnt have to lie. i didnt change my number.she sent me a txt to tell me about this guy in the most hurtful way she could. this guy lives at the other side of the country. she hasnt ended it,they are very much in touch. there is absolutely no need for her to put this here,it is just to try and pee me off.she has given me the same reason to leave,then repeated the same act time after time. it is the something she never ever mentions to anyone.
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reader, asap09marc  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 Babes,dont hate the player if u started the game.
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reader, asap09marc +, writes (18 October 2010):
Babes,if u wanted someone u dont sleep with others. Thats a sure way to gettin rid permanently. He`s not goin back to u.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): firstly i did not bring another man into my relationship,i was in no relationship i was single 6 weeks on from being dumped via txt mssg,he changed his number so i could not contact him,even asked his elsest son to pass messages in regards to his 5 yr old son seeing him he just refuse to acknowledge mine or his childs existence is that normal behaviour from a guy who gets pissed off cause he did not want to know you,has zero contact with you and then procceds to say you cheated on him the sooner he accepts that if he had wanted me and his son he would have taken the appropiate steps within days to talk and take an interest in us but unfortunately he did not he turned his back and blames me for what he did to us
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): for all you anon i waited 6 weeks for my man to get in touch even to see his son but he never did that tells me he got another woman which i had suspected anyway female intuition gut feeling,so i moved on and he dont like it very insecure and controling because men look at me its nature and he should of been proud not jealous and angry his loss thats his mistake
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): i am nobody just a lonely widower searching for male friends to have the usual chat to since loosing my husband i find it hard to make friends even leave my home
..................................I am in your situation and was accused of things i never did. I find times like these hard so i have lots of fun going on dating sites. Give it a try and your world will be such an exciting place to be in. You wont even be thinking about your ex men.Be careful,you may even get addicted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): av u told that other man that u r over? or was it mr ex who told him an that is y he gived u trouble?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): Why do you believe he shouldnt dump you? You had another man. Of course he should dump you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): another man in your bed often breaks up relationships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): Is the reason he wont speak to you becos you had it with that other man? Its never the same when a third party has put a mark on it. It will be better to stay split up and class it as ruined. You should not blame him because he had a choice just like you did. That third party needs to be reported to the police. You let him have it and this is what he does. He is not a real man and you should be thanking your ex not hating on him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): thank you all for your answers but dispite the threats it was wrong for my ex to do what he has done since he dumped me he has caused me so much pain and all i am guily of is loving him thats why i know im not capable of being with someone else not until i can stop loving him
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): Be cautious,but i feel its unlikely any harm will come to you and the kids. I too find it very cowardly to confront you instead of your other x. He isnt pretty decent by a long way. The first ex is likely to feel very embarrassed when he calms down. However idiotic he is behaving,he has took his aggression to a man who has a fighting chance,not to a woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): There is something very clear to me here. It is not your ex that is making the calls or ordering any one to. It is the other guy. He to you is decent. This is between your ex and him. He has blamed you and is causing fear,but still not a single bad word for him. Tell your decent guy to call the police or fight back. It is not your fault that ex has decided to undertake a menacing campaign against him. If he carries on then you inform the police. It is not likely to win the other guy back if you do though. You are probably more angry with your ex because he`s driven a wedge between you. If the guy is decent like you believe he is, then he will take you back. All three of you look very much borderline by what i am reading. Ex needs to grow up. Ex lover or the decent guy needs to stop being the cowardly lion. You need to see it as it is happening and stop believing the sun always shines on your in between lover,because he is not as decent as you convince yourself he is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): It doesnt matter how he got his number. This lover or whatever guy, is a first class tosser who is being harrassed by your ex,not by you. He blames you because its easier. Nothing decent there. Call the cops or get your ex to bash him up. Bullys make me sick. He cant stand his ground with your ex,otherwise he would not be threatening you. Most people who threaten dont follow it through.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010): If he is threatening you then he isnt a decent guy. You should ask him to stop taking it out on you and stand up to your ex instead. In a word that man is a coward. Why is your ex giving him drama? He is taking it out on him because you made yourself sexually available so soon after breaking up. Now he is taking out on you, because he must be too weak to retaliate.? You have been a yo yo to both of them. With guy number 2 he has reason to feel used. Guy number will feel be hurt,disappointed and feel let down by what he knows. What he is doing is unhelpful.
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