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writes:Ok so i've liked this girl for a while and id talk to her as often as i could. Finally i told her i liked her and she said she kind of figured but then wouldnt tell me how she felt (i didnt want to push it just kinda let the ball lie in her court) until a while later when she said she wasnt ready for another relationship and that she was sorry if it hurt. At first it didnt i was like ok she was with her ex for over a year ill give her time but now im wondering if that was just an excuse to not go out with me. I still talk to her regularly i just try to tone down how much i like her. Any advice? Should i ask her out again? Was that just an excuse? Does she even like me or are we just friends? Any idea why she rejected me?
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reader, veronika  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 I don't know if it was an excuse. She could have said that because she may have mixed feelings about you - like she doesn't know if she wants to go out with you or not.
Sometimes people will also say something like that if they're not interested, so it *could* be an excuse.
I don't think you should ask her out too soon again. You've told her how you feel, she knows it. I would suggest that if she wants to be with you then she'll approach you. If you see her regularly you may notice changes in behaviour if she becomes more interested in you. So just leave it for now.
At the moment it sounds like you're just friends. But she gave you a mixed answer, so who knows what can happen in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. Any idea on the other questions? should i try my hand again later in case it is a real reason she doesnt want to go out and maybe later shell feel differently? or am i just graspin at straws at this point?
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