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anonymous
writes:My ex and I broke up a little over a month ago see caught me in a stupid lie and was hurt. We stayed friends recently we began haveing sex agine and I stay with her alot she calls me hers but were still apart last night I stayed with her as we were cuddleing she asked me if we were togther or what I said I don't know she said then what are we doing I told her I still want her which she allready new we kissed nothing else was said about it we then move in to having sex agine. Noe my question is are we togher or does she want to be togther agine or not. I ask for you best advice I'm 23 she's 22
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (21 March 2010):
 I am confused. She caught you in a lie and broke up with you? Is that right? Now she is having sex with you and then asks if you are "still together." By all accounts it appears that she wants to be with you. While are you waffling?
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reader, Entirely Unique  +, writes (21 March 2010):
 Personally I think she was asking you if you were together or not because she needed you to be the one to be telling her whether that was something you wanted from the situation.
I would talk to her, tell her how you feel about her and what you want whether it be you getting back together, if she doesn't want you to get back together I would distance yourself from the falling into acting and behaving the way couples do as this can be confusing and also unfair on both of you.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (21 March 2010):
Yes she assumes you are back together. Sometimes peopleb feel like they are protecting their hearts by not coming out and saying it. What would I do if I were you? Go with the flow and don't try to define what you are with her now. Don't see anyone else and just be with her. Let her see and feel how you feel for her you don't have pollute it with words.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): If you want her nd if you think she wants yu go tell her you want to make up but if she says no talk to her and tell her I won't be your unofficial boyfriend or your sex toy. I think honestly if its just sex than your wasting your time if it is you shuld find someone who wuld care about yu as much as you do to them I mean the other way of saying sex is making love and yu can't make love wit someone you aren't in a relationship with.
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