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anonymous
writes:I am a young mother of two little boys, who had to leave their father. it has been about a year and a half since i left him, and now i am living with a man whom i feel i love very much. however. i have some trust issues with him, because i found him having online "chat" with other women, and from my point of view, he wasnt just talking like friends do. it bothered me, and i need to know what i can do to trust him again. he says it will never happen again, but he gets texts and sends text messages late into the night. i left him and went home, and realized i didnt want to be appart from him, so we decided to try again, and i discovered that while i was gone, he was getting naked pictures of other women, and sending naked pictures of himself. i have no idea what to think, i love this man with all my heart, and im terrified of what is possibly happening.any ideas???-lost
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reader, MelissaRomeo  +, writes (21 March 2010):
 I know how you're feeling. Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. When a woman falls in love she usually gives her heart soul and body totally to the person shes in love with - i understand that you love him with your whole heart, but some men are different, some are good some are not so good and some are just not worth your time. You are a woman and you deserve someone who can love you and respect you you've given him a chance do you think its worth giving him another chance even after you've seen the naked pictures? Why does he need naked pictures of other woman when he as you? I dont know the man you're in love with but i dont think he deserves you or a second chance i think you should leave him at least for now, stay friends with him and if you see that he's changing then yea, why not give him another chance.
But! Don't forget to put you and your two little boys at the top of your world - they need you , and you need some1 who will love you enough to allow you to be happy enough to make your little boys happy too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): If he wants to act sngle, then give him what he wants, because in the end you will only end up hurt!
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