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writes:How can i get my boyfriend in the mood? There are so many Q and A's for this, i know.But it seems like they're all for serious relationships, marriages, and adults.I'm 14, boyfriend 16. We've been together for 5 months, but haven't gone any father than making out. I know im young, but niether of us are virgins, so i dont need lectures. He's not shy, i am. but i'm the one that wants him. Whenever hes at my house and we're kissing, i get really turned on, and i can stop thinking about it. i don't wanna be too agressive and i dont like taking dirty or whatever bc im sorta shy.advice please!(:thankyou..
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): thank you very much. although i didnt get the response i was looking for, what you said was very helpful(:no, i wasnt looking for lectures as i stated in my question... but you explained it in a way that i agree with. so thank you for giving me your insight, and im planning on making big changes in my life to follow your advice. ive know all along that i wasnt handling things correctly, but you made me think twice.thank you again, so much(:,anonymous 14year old.
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reader, Uncle Chaos  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 Hi,
First things first- I know you said that you don’t want any lectures but unfortunately this reply is going to be sort of preachy, no way around that- sorry.
Just letting you know from the start.
Right -
The chances of you getting tips on here about “turning your boyfriend on” are slim to none because, well- it’s against the law.
I live in the UK and the age of consent here is 16.
I did a little research before writing this reply and found that the age of consent in the US ranges from 16-18 from state to state.
I’m also aware that no matter what I say- people are going to have under age sex. I’m not naive enough to assume that a reply is going to change that.
You say that you’ve been going out with this boy for 5 months, which really isn’t all that long.
It may seem a long time- but it really isn’t.
Also- you’re 14, 2 years below the minimum age of consent in the US, and you say that you’re not a virgin – which means that your previous partners have broken the law.
At 14 it does worry me to an extent that you have had sex, but as I said before - I’m not naive enough to be surprised.
The only advice that I’m going to give you is to wait.
At the end of the day- if you do have sex- you boyfriend will technically be raping you- even if you consent - and if caught- can, and probably will, end up in jail.
Even though I don’t condone it- from a moral or legal stand point - if you do end up having sex, be safe, use protection.
But in all honestly if you really like, even love this boy, then wait.
2 years is nothing in the grand scheme of things.
I hope this helps (though I kind of doubt it)
Be safe
UC
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