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writes:Ive been with my boy friend for almost four years its been a terrible four years but I still truely care about the first year of our relationship we broke up for the summer he went on a masive partying bindge with his ex he ended up goin to the city hall and gettin married the next night he came over balling his eyes out to me saying he can't believe he did this so I took him back but since then he won't get divorce and old friend called me out of the blue and told me that they have been sleepin with each other and that they both have been hangin out with my friend while I was at work no body told me all my friends knew my man was cheatin and none of them said anythin but just yesturday I went to work and went I came home him and all of his belonings were gone with out even saying good bye and tellin me the truth I can't belive this is happening I have no one to talk to everyone has betrayed me I've never felt so stupid and alone how do I forget about him and this
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (21 March 2010):
 Oh Honey I am really sorry for what you are going through. Please don't feel betrayed, your friends didn't tell you because they didn't want to upset you. No one was laughing at you behind your back, they just didn't know what to do. some people will have thought that it is not their business either so please don't be too hard on them. As it happens I would have told you but I know my friends wouldn't have told me for all of the reasons given above. I know it is a gut wrenching experience and you are feeling fearful of the future but it is so much better that he has gone. He was a very weak man who didn't even have the guts to tell you he was off. He was a nasty cheater and not worth hanging onto. You will go through a lot of pain I know but this is definitely one for the best.
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reader, Tasmanian devil +, writes (21 March 2010):
 You should just completely forget about him, you've had a crappy relationship and the best thing to do is move on, and meet someone else who will treat you right. As for your friends talk to them or you'll never know their reason for not telling you because there is a chance of a plausible reason, and if not then theres no point for having friends who will just betray you like that. The best thing to do is just chalk this up to life experience, the worst thing would be to let this 1 experience damage your future relationships, and lead you to do regret something later on in life
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reader, cyberor +, writes (21 March 2010):
So, what is your question? Are you asking why your bf did that to you or why none of your friends told you what your bf has done? Or you just need a comfort?
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