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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i am a guy. i like this girl who is my classmate. we just started of speaking as normal friends. we used to talk all day on phone, even in the night, i used to stay on line while she slept, we became best friends. while talking she told me she has a boyfriend and she likes him very much. everything was going fine and one fine day she asked me to give a ride for her on my bike. that closeness between us made me start liking her, i told her this because i did not want to hide anything, the next day she hugged me while on bike ride. i hugged her on numerous occasions like while having lunch, she feels sleepy, she sleeps in arms. everything was fine when she suddenly started avoiding me for no reason stating that i dont know my priorities and my exams are fast approaching and i am talking to her. problems started from here. i know she has a boyfriend and i respect her relationship with him.she has worst mood swings. its really hard for me to control her in that time. she even went on to the extent saying that she lost her others friends as she used to spek to me all day. recently while she was cranky, i lost my patience and temper and told her 'you lost me'. she did not speak to me for two day, i kept on texting her sorry, but she never replied. at last she replied and said it was ok. i met her gave her a sorry card and she took it. only thing i feel bad is she used to ask me to meet everyday and also for bike rides, but after the day problems started she stopped asking to meet. when i ask her, she is like, i dont know whether i will be able to or no. comparing the past with what is happening now is just haunting me. many questions come to my mind, why has she changed like this etc etc. i am just literally depressed and writing this. what can i do to make her understand and come back to me as she was like before?and also even in her mood swings she is ok with other people whom she meets. but i am no longer her classmate now and i dont get to meet her. why is she like this to me when she is normal with others? we are very good friends but i dont know, it feels like i am losing her. please suggest something!!
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