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*tevemc208
writes:just cannot decide what to do. i am very depressed and still living at home and in terms of relationship have been with my girlfriend on nd off for the last 6 years and frankly i am bord but the thing is i am bord and stuck in a rut with life in general so i am finding it hard to distinguish between the two.recently i have been texting my third cousin a lot as found out she has been really depressed too so wanted to try and help her out etc. friendship soon turned flirty and we met up one day and ended up kissing and hugging. (she lives 100 miles away and near my relatives. ) i have since had many arguments with my girlfriend and almost left her after admiting i dont love her as much as i used to. we ended up kind of making up but only after she seduced me into staying another day. she wants us to work on things and for me to try harder getting a job up where she lives. i just dont know how to decide what to do? my mum knows about me visiting my cousin and she is not a fan of it but it is not like she is my first cousin she is my third cousin. we get on so so wel.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (13 November 2010):
 You need to end the relationship because in your heart it's not what you really want. Even if it's only for a break, you need to find out. You are in a rut. There's no kids, no mortgage so you have an easy way out with no other commitments. You have the whole world out there to see what your options are. Are you depressed because you arent nearer to her and don't see her enough. Or is it because you like the idea of the third cousin and want to see how that pans out.
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