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*exxywildrose
writes:I have a very serious problem i met my kids father 8yrs. ago and we started out having sex before we got to no each other i was very sexual back then i was young single, no kids and very dumb and i meet him and i was instantly hooked the sex was amazing we kick it three before i got pregnant with my first little girl and we got much closer but i started to c that he had alot of girls calling his phone he was a player and i didnt even know oh yea also he's married but he told me they were separated and i beleive him cause he was always at my house even went to work from my house in the mornings anyway as time went on i fall more and more in love with him i got to know him beyond the sex but he had alot of female friends his 12yrs older than me so that part i loved i thought he was unhappy in his marrige and was looking for true love, then 3 more yrs. later i had another child and even though im not the same person i was when we met i never cheated on him and dont even find other guys attractive he is like my first love i really fell hard now i have my own house working he still married and doing wrong he doesnt want to commit he doesnt do anything for our kids but watch them when i go to work he always spends his money on him and i believe giving it to women now im stuck because i cant get child support because hes on disability now and they wont make him pay and if i dont let him c them it doesnt bother him cause i dont believe he wants to be there anyway i work part time i need money and help and he wont give it to me i broke it off with him but he doesnt care cause he has some many girls i even told him he can just go get there things and he always claims to be broke someone please tell me what can i do
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reader, Sexxywildrose +, writes (21 March 2010):
Sexxywildrose is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for ur answer very helpful
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (21 March 2010):
I'm sorry, but isn't it a bit late to be wondering what you can do??? You've gotten yourself into quite a mess and now there's not much you can do besides depend on yourself and I think you're pretty much to the point where you know that's what you have to do.
This "man" has been a sleezeball since day one, yet you were too naive to believe otherwise at the time. Now that you're older and wiser, I really think all you can do is fend for yourself and do what you can for your children. Sometimes the father of your children is better off not being in your life. He probably causes more stress and drama than you and your kids need. You can always go through the courts to try and get child support, but who knows how many other children he has fathered and if he's not making any money you're kind of out of luck.
Do what you can do to improve your life. Go back to school and do what you always wanted to do that way you can better support your children. Single moms do it all the time. Also, a lot of people need some help at some point in their life and there are programs provided by the state in case you need help with food and some income temporarily.
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