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writes:erm, you might not think its much, but I don't know how to react.me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months, and a couple of months ago he got off with this girl a couple of times and we nearly split up. I stayed with him but it took ages to regain my trust for him. yesterday I learnt that he had done the same thing with another girl the other day. I cant trust him, but I don't no whether to stay with him or not, :/everyone says I am better than this and I don't deserve the way he's been treating me and I know if I was one of my friends I wouldn't want her to go through this, but I don't know what to do when. should I stay with him or not ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): Honestly I say to break up with him. I think that if you don't break up with him he will just use you. He obviously knows that you will forgive him if he cheats so he will most likely keep doing it. You gave him a second chance and look what he did. Take a break with him and look for someone more faithful. Who knows, maybe he will realize how much of a dog he is and really change :]
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reader, Heartbroken in love  +, writes (21 March 2010):
Stay with him and let him keep cheating. That's what your doing anyway. You don't want to listen to your friends so why would you listen to us? You already have all the information you need to make the right decision
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 March 2010):
Dump him. He's cheated several times, and you do deserve better. He'll continue to cheat. Get rid of him. Just tell him you know he's cheating, and you can do better than a little immature boy who cheats. Then cut contact.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (21 March 2010):
 Why would you want to be with someone who;
a) you can't trust
b) cheated on you twice
c) lies - he obviously told you he wouldn't do it again, cheaters always say that to get their partner back
You have to ask yourself why you're with him. I'd say dump him. But you need to ask yourself some important questions first.
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