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writes:It is me again. Thank you to everyone for thier wonderful words of advice and wisdom. I met a charming man online. we have been communicating mostly through email and a few phone calls for three months. I have not had sex for years and years as I have been waiting for the right man to share something so special after my divorce. This man and I have been emailing alot since he travels for a living and is all over the world .. I let my inhibitions down and we engaged in some hot, flirty, sexual exchanges via email for sometime. we were supposed to meet this week and i told him as I had from the begining that I would not stay in his hotel room with him as I do not know him except from email. I did not give mixed sigals as we both agreed that the exchange of the sexual emails was fun.. All along the way I said nothing is going to happen sexually till I trust you and know who you are, then i kinda jokingly mentioned I need to make sure you are not an ax murderer or rapist, he got very offended when I said that jokingly through email, I was kidding sort of. Last week, I mentioned I spoke to another guy ( which I never met by the way ) and this current guy took it that I was dating him.. IN any event, he emailed me back saying the scariest thingand here goes.that is so great you have a date with a guy from St Louis. I am sure it will go well BOth of you sound like AX Murderers that would eat thier victims bodies and when you get hungry you can go in the basement and cook up a stew . Have a fun timeWhen I got this I almost got sick.. I wanted to get everyones feedback and post this for people that are dating online..Is this guy crazy? Is he dangerous?? .
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reader, ElectricSheep +, writes (21 March 2010):
 Yeah, sounds like he's just being sarcastic. He's letting you know how far fetched your idea of him being an ax murderer and rapist was, so he did it with this sarcastic comment. You might have meant what you said jokingly, but people can't really detect the emotions behind text online (exactly how you didn't get his sarcasm). So maybe he thought you really meant it, although you did semi-mean it =)
Judging by your age, I think you already know about being safe when meeting someone you meet online, so we won't get into that. We gotta make sure they really aren't ax murderers =P
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (21 March 2010):
 He is being sarcastic and throwing it in your face that you would say that he could be an axe murderer and a rapist.
I am sure you said it like this ,,"I hope you aren't an axe murderer or rapist".
As opposed to, "I hope you aren't an axe murderer or rapist, lol :P" to indicate joking was indicated. At that point, he would say no no no, what you see is what you get.
Either way, he is a little bit easily offended, but no he is not dangerous. LOL
Anyway, that thing is kinda over now.
You should hang out with the other guy when you are ready.
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