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Is she into me or does she just see me as a 'mate from the club'?

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Question - (21 March 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

SO heres the thing, I was out with my mate and his work mates, i met one of his girl co-workers and we was chatting for a bit in this club and that was that for a while. Little later on in the night we met back up and we was talking for a bit, then she made a move to kiss me, so we sat down and had a smootch and a chat. At the end of the night, i waited with her near the club for her sister to pick her up and we exchanged numbers, she text me to let me know she got home ok, so i said , cool you'll have to let me know if your out again. and that was that.......I gave her a text 3 days later see how she was getting on, she replied, didnt really ask me anything tho, so i just left it there......2 weeks later, i again see her in the club again, but she doesnt say anything or look at me, so i just leave it.....bout 5 minutes later, i get a text, hey its rude not to come say hello, so i leave it bout 5 mintues and scoot over to say hi. She leaves her mates and we sit down and have a drink and a chat on the sofa, and after about an hour it leads to bit more smootching and a bit of cuddling (sloopy i know!) and her mates eventual leave and she decides to stay for a while with me. eventual we leave the club and we get a taxi and drop her off home ect and i get home, she has text me, telling me she was glad we bumped into each other again...

I quiet like this girl, and would def like to take her out and find out more about her, she seems my type, all the right body lang signals are there, laughing at my not funny jokes, like touching me, leaves her mates to talk to me ect......

Im just not sure if shes either both times had too much confidence for the drinkm or she just sees me as a "mate from the club" kind of lad?

Any thoughts? cheers

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A female reader, Joeyxxox United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2010):

Joeyxxox agony auntIt seems like she is deffinately into you, especially if she left her mates to chat with you. The reason she was proabably a bit funny after you hadn't spoken for a while is because she probably wanted you to chase her a bit more/playing hard to get.

If you like her, just ask her if she wants to hang out again :)

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