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female
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30-35,
*nswersqueen
writes: I need help i don't know what to do :( ! Me and my boyfriend were going out for 8 months then i found out he kissed a girl while going out with me ( he wasnt drunk only 13) i dumped him as i needed to think and after 2 weeks i had given him another chance its a month on and when hes around girls and i can see him i get really jelous and angry!! am i over reacting or is he in the wrong??before i gave him another chance i did tell him i dunno if i can trust him as much as i used to and i cant if hes out with girls and i'm not there i get upset , what do you think? xthanks
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reader, petina1 +, writes (13 November 2010):
It's the age. It's very hard to have a trusting relationship when you are this age because hormones are playing a big part and it's like when all these girls and boys are out there, like being in a big Candy store. Lot's to chose from and in a dilema as to which one to have, you just need a taste of them all. That's the way of the world. You probably won't trust him again and he has given you good reason not to. If he really cares whether you trust him or not he will reassure you every chance he gets that he is behaving. Is he doing this? Do you really want to live like that, it can be very hard to live this way. All you can do is just get on with life with him and if it happens again then he isnt worth it.
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