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writes:Qupid please help! Ok so like I have kwn this guy names victor for 6 months and like I told him I like him and he liked me to..we didn't hook up though..he's a very cocky guy but with me he was so shy and wouldn't tlk. Wed text a lot though practically 24/7 and like @ school wed tlk a bit and whenever wed say hi we would hug..I liked this other guy leo from music school and I was confused about liking the two. I liked victor more but then leo did everything I wanted victor to do..one day I was walking with my best friend before school and she asked me about my weekend because I seen leo I told her how much I liked him and how sweet he is..then she asked what about victor and im like idk and im like he's kind of a pussy and like I didn't realize but victor was behind us the whole time..later on when I seen victor and I had my arms out for a hug he's like no im sorry..and I didn't understand where this was coming from..later on I checked my phone and he had texted me "umm yea don't try to hug me anymore or talk, thanks" and I texted back and im like where is this coming from and I realized he had heard and I hurt him..he never admitted tht he heard what I called him but my friend told me tht it wasn't until we turned the corner of the street she had seen him behind us but she didn't tell me becuz id get worried..so like he was mad @ me and didn't wanna tlk then I guess he mad up a lie and he's like I don't love you!!! And im like it doesn't make sense cuz he told me he did and until after all of this then he says he doesn't love me..and like now @ school I catch him staring @ me but we hvnt tlks in 4 weeks and I texted him apologizing and he jst said what do you want and I texted back if you don't want to tlk to the person don't even reply..and he hasn't since then even when I texted and said I was sorry twice!..so like idk what to do..how can I apologize? if he hates me and tries to avoid me even when were in a group together for class he stays distant..And how do I know he still cares for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell time has passed..for a month he didn't even tlk to me jst merely stare @ me with those sad "its all your fault eyes".. In our college prep class, we chnged seats and now he has been attelpting to get my attention..I ignored him @ first bt now he's trying more and more and I've been strting to tlk to him..on myspace he added me and we tlk every night becuse he doesn't hve his phone anymore. Now things are better and he even asked me to be his partner for an all day event..so ill be with him for 7 hrs, so great to have alone time with him..everthing seem to be turning out great..he told me lets take it slow so im guessing he was scared of a relationship @ first and now idk wants to change. Things do turn out great and things happen for a reason, now im happier..hopeful as time passes will be in a relationship
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reader, Uncle Chaos  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 Hi,
From what I’ve read, I’m going to say that yes, I think this guy still likes you.
But saying what you said has obviously hurt him. Calling him a pussy was really not a good move. Guys exist off they’re ego.
And you’ve bruised his.
As for apologising- do it in person- it means a lot more than texting someone.
Other than that there is nothing else you can really do apart from wait and see if and when he accepts your apology.
Hope this helps
UC
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