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writes:Hey,I'm 14, and i already have LOTS of pubic hair, which i hate.I'm a swimmer, and i'm finding it hard to cope with shaving, and i dont feel ready to wax yet.the hair spreads way past my knicker line. Also, do men find lots of pubic hair unattractive or is it something to love and keep.please help, xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): Dont worry what other people say its ur life u do wat u want to do personily i think dont shave?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): girlfriend, I'm a good looking 26 year old male that has seen them hairy, shaved, waxed, trimmed, landing strip, etc. Keep your pubic hair, please just keep it. Shaving is going to be an inconvenience for you and it is a lot of upkeep. Men like to see a woman, not a little girl.
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reader, Rossi +, writes (27 August 2010):
Hi im 22 male,
my girlfriend has lots of pubic hair and im very fond of it!! she does not shave at all and she likes this look, and it makes her happy :) she is 18!! in the past i have had girlfriend who was the complete opposite and shaved every thing!! and now looking back at this i feel its a turn off as she didnt have any sighns of being an adult!! so i think you should leave it to grow and be natural and be happy :) :) :)x
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reader, Stonemason  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 Some men love to see lots of it. Worn with a bathing suit, you should probably trim it, however, landstrip-wise, etc. I can tell you that this is not a problem since you always have scissors or could always show some guy the door.
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reader, Maidengirl101 +, writes (18 July 2010):
 All us women have the same problem dont worry about it untill ur ready to have sex with some1 then choose and if the person loves u they wont care ethier way
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): Why not try waxing? I don't know what you mean by not "being ready." That is far and away the best method of dealing with the problem, as long as you remember to exfoliate and moisturise regularly. I have masses of pubic hair, or at least I would if I didn't wax it. I hate it unless it is neat and tidy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou all, especially the most recent answerer, very helpful.thanks, xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): I am a swimmer also, I hated shaving because of the obvious woes. I got a little electric trimmer. Its great because it doesn't cut the hairs down to the skin, there are a little there so its not crazy prickly but it knocks off the fluff and allows me to keep it clean and orderly.
I shave about ever week or two. Its just your typical battery operated rechargeable dry hair/mustache trimmer.
I can't use it in sensitive places, it nicks and creates a bloody mess. But it gets the bulk of the thick places. No waxing, no shaving, no itching for more than a day, do it right before you hop in the shower and when your all dry.
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reader, mikehimself  +, writes (23 March 2010):
a whole lotta hair is not attractive. on girls OR guys. have you ever gone down and gotten a mouthful of pubes? not fun. and dangerous. I almost choked once..
keep it trimmed, keep it nice looking, be happy with your own body. you should be proud of how you decide to style your nether hair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): Men are people too. What they think about pubic hair is as varied as those people's feelings towards ice cream flavours
Sure there's a fashion for not having much. But lots of people don't follow the fashion of the moment yet still look stunning. Like all fashion, if you do what feels right for you, then you will have confidence and a smile and you'll look trumps.
Personally, I like to run my fingers through my girlfriend's pubic hair and I'd be disappointed if she got rid of it.
If you do swim seriously, then check out definition left by the crotch panels of your wet swimwear before shaving the lot. Some suits are better than others at not sticking to the shaved skin, as one woman who swims in our session found out (we laughed about it, but she wasn't a teenager and we weren't bitchy schoolkids).
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): Here' my stock answer to the daily pubic hair question:
Keep in mind the whole bald thing is just a current trend. If anyone is aghast at the sight of pubic hair he is probably pretty young and grew up on contemporary mainstream porn which features little to no hair. Biologically, pubic hair is a secondary sex characteristic. It is one of the features that distinguishes little girls from fertile females. That being the case, anyone who is turned off by it has been conditioned by popular sexual aesthetics. Besides, no one has ever said to a lady, "Hey, nice mons pubis!"
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (22 March 2010):
 Can't you just use a depilatory cream?
You can't use those creams EVERYWHERE, but on your thighs, I'm sure it would work.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (21 March 2010):
 I think you'll find most guys your age will reply that they want it trimmed if not gone. Regardless, you do want to appear decent whilst swimming, and decent doesn't include having hair showing. I'd never ask a girl to wax there, or even shave -- stubble and shaving rash are terribly unappealing. But do trim enough that nothing peeks out from your bathing suit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): In my opinion heaps of hair as you are describing is not very attractive. I think most guys feel that way. Keep it neat and tidy and its all good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): yes.most guys do find pubic hair absolutely unattractive..shaving is not bad once you get used to.
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reader, Dylan McK +, writes (21 March 2010):
 Lots of men have varying turn ons/offs, but widely men find a large amount of pubes unnatractive. Its your decission, find someone who loves your body the way you do.
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