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36-40,
anonymous
writes:So heres my problem. Everyone takes advantage of me. My last girlfriend constantly walked all over me then borrowed a bunch of money, never payed it back, and now refuses to admit im alive. My friends constantly have me help them and do work for them and loan them money and when i need a hand, nobodys around. I really liked a girl and she said she liked me too. She talked to me long enough for me to do a bunch of custom work on her truck. I dropped it off and she said she was tired and would talk to me later. The next day i found out she moved 800 miles away and just wanted some work done for free. My friends let me walk 6 miles in the rain one day because everybody was "busy" when my truck broke down. Turns out nobody really was, just didnt want to help. One friend said he didnt want to get his car dirty on that road so they left me. So should i just move and get new friends?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): First they arn't friends, expecially after leaving you in the rain and alone. Second you should see the signs in a girl. If the first thing you have to do is give her something or she asks you for something don't do it. Just because something looks good on the outside doesn't mean she's good on the in. If you talk to a girl thats great, but don't offer help unless it's neccesary. Be there if it's an actuall need, unless for money. How I think of it is if they got themselves in they can get themselves out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): Your a pushover just like me. People will always take advantage and walk over us because we're too nice,trusting,naive etc. Sorry theres nothing you can do about it, its the way you are part of your personailty find friends similar to yourself and look for women who are genuine. x
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (21 March 2010):
 Do both. Clearly these people are not your friends. Understand that you teach people how to treat you. What is going on with you? I think that your problems are rooted in some very deep seeded esteem issues. If this is a recurrent theme in your life try to get some professional help or this is going to keep happening to you.
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