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writes: I have been dateing this guy of the late 3 months. when i met him I questioned why he wanted to date me. He has dated lots of beautiful women and is Friends with pro football players and nba players Me im just the girl from the neigborhood. I just didnt feel like i fit in to his life style. He assured me that he was growing up and wanted more. so i gave it a try. we spent just about every free moment together and talked on the phone everyday for the past 3 months. recently the phone calls stopped and i dont see him anymore. He says hes working through text message. never answers my calls. when i ask him through text whats going on he says im fussing give him sometime to adjust to the work schedule. its been three weeks now i dont know what to do or think. i dont know if it was smething i did or didnt do. he just left me how do you deal with someone just walking away from you. i feel like hes gone. why did he leave i though we where really enjoyin each other. what did i miss that i didnt see this coming
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 July 2010):
Now he is blaming YOU for him not calling? Wow he's got a set on him...
Sounds like a narcissist... google it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat is this man doing. now he text me everyday telling me. evrything is ok and im over reacting. the reason i havent seen or talked to him is because he knows im going to argue with him. i am confused, i know i havent done anything wrong to him, and i know im not over reacting. How is it that he makes me feel like i did?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): I would tell you to just move on I too had something like this happen and found out that with some men they are only happy till the next skirt tail comes around and then you are dropped like a hot potatoe they cant help their selves they think with the wrong head sometimes . If i was you i would think about myself and go out and enjoy myself not that you will forget what you thought you had but you cant dwell on it either . Good Luck ;)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 June 2010):
Is he by any chance seeing someone else?
I'm sorry you CAN'T MAKE him talk to you. I would let this one go.
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reader, banditsmom1124 +, writes (30 June 2010):
did he ever show you any proof of these amazing things? iv dated guys like this and the truth is most were just amazing story tellers. i asked for proof and hmm there was none--just more stories lol.
hun theres a good chance that he wasnt telling you the truth so dont sweat it!
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reader, sunnycomet +, writes (30 June 2010):
I'm sorry, I know it hurts but the best thing now is to move on and concentrate on what makes you happy. Maybe he is having a really hard time at work. Don't worry about it. He will contact you when he is ready. For now move on and don't contact him.
Good Luck!
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (30 June 2010):
You sound like such a sweet young person, It's sad to see that you were hurt like this but i think yout initial instincts may have been a red flag for you. You say you felt "unworthy" (my word not yours) but your instincts might have been really try to say,"Look out, this guy is a run-around-type" and won't be anything but rouble. My advice is; learn from this to trust those instincts BUT never think it was something that you did. There are just some guys that are jerks. You are much better off without this heartache. It could have been worse! Good Luck! R.
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reader, iloveblue +, writes (30 June 2010):
To be honest, there are guys like that. Their interest level on you is good only for a certain period of time. It's not what you did, it's the way he thinks.
I suggest that you just accept that this thing happened and there's no way for you to go but forward. Do not waste your time crying, sulking...it's just 3 months. It is easier than most who have to move on after years of relationship with other people. Keep your head high girl!
It's his loss not yours...
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