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female
age
30-35,
*Dazzling
writes:Ok. A guy liked me for about a year. Shortly after he started liking me, I realized I liked him too. As the year passed, the feelings grew but since I'm generally a shy person, I never really responded to his staring/attempts to communicate. From the start of the school year (in February) he begun point-blank ignoring me. Long story short, it hurt like hell. Also, it seemed like he tried to stop himself from looking at me, but most of the time he'd just walk straight past me and the staring completely stopped. Maybe it was just me, but when the teacher asked me a question in class, he'd look downwards. Now it's June and I've been so hurt and confused.He still avoids looking at me/talking to me, even in practical situations to do with school. If he was over it, wouldn't he just act normally??What do you think is going on with him? I'm scared it's too late to do anything about it, but I'm thinking that it doesn't hurt to try? I've been regretting not telling him badly for too long.I can't move on, believe me I've tried and ended up liking him more and hurting more. How could I talk to him, just randomly start a conversation? He had hundreds of friends on Facebook but never added me. I added him yesterday though and now we are friends via FB. His bday's in a few days (1 day after mine) too. Should I drop by a birthday wish?AND:A 2 week holiday is in a few days. I don't want him to drift away further, thinking I never liked him, but I don't want to make things awkward. What do you think of slipping him a note or something?_________Opinions?Any thoughts/advice would be SO appreciated. Thanks in advance.
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reader, siennamac  +, writes (30 June 2010):
Yeah, doesn't really make sense how he just suddenly ignored you.
Maybe drop him a casual note.
And absolutely drop him some birthday wishes! shows your nice even though he isn't..
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best of luck.
sienna.
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