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I dreamt I kissed another man, and the same night my husband dreamt about me cheating!

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Question - (30 June 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i had a dream a couple of nights ago that i kissed a friend that i fancy, my husband also had a dream the same night that i might go off with someone else now i cant stop thinking about my friend, plus he lives in the same close as us. what should i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010):

Ha! Pretty much the same thing happened to me too, lol. I swear I had a dream about my boyfriends friend for the past two nights but each night was a different guy. The first night was not a guy that I ever thought about liking but last night I had a similary dream about someone I kind of had a "thing" with that's one of my boyfriends friends. Really frustrating becuase when i woke up this morning all i kept thinking about what why the hell i've been having these dreams. it's wierd

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010):

dreams are just dreams. maybe your marriage is getting stale and both you and your hubby need to create more excitment. instead of focusing on the negative look at the positives.

another thing; Sometimes dreams are interpreted in the opposite- you dream of birth, it symbolises birth. you dream of a birth and someone dies shortly thereafter.

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A male reader, RealityChecker United States +, writes (30 June 2010):

Dreams. Some will say they mean something. others will say it was the affect of the food you ate for dinner that evening. I remember having dreams of a faceless woman that somehow made me feel like I wanted to, yet i had a despairing feeling of loss when I woke up and for the rest of the day. Dreams can sure take you for a ride sometimes. Thing is, if you dreamt about kissing another man, i would dismiss it as only a dream. Like the feeling you get after seeing an actor you thought was attractive. Real Life is right there next to you, and wishing he was the main attraction of your life. The question would then be, is he?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010):

Ah...the invisible strings that connect us all....let go of the friend fantasy and start asking why you're even fantasizing about someone other than your husband. Is there something in your relationship that's making you unhappy or unfulfilled? Obviously, your husband is feeling like something isn't right in the marriage too...

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (30 June 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntTry a couple big tumblers of scotch before you go to bed, if you do have any dreams you most likely won't remember them in the morning, your headache will distract you.

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