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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years off and on. The last year has been perfect. Just the last three weeks have been no sex. He got a new job with good pay and a new car. He just seems not so interested in sex with me right now. Is this something to worry about or should I understand that he is going thru something new? I would think that his life seems perfect and would understand that i do so much for him. What should I Do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): I had the same thing recently. Turns out he was very stressed at work, very tired and exhausted. He only started a new job 5 months before. Of course on my end i knew nothing and was panicking. But because he was feeling that way (stressed/tired) he just wasn't in the mood. Give him some time. If you live or see each other a lot it might be easier for you to seduce him. Maybe offer him some massages after a days work. In a month if its still the same, talk to him. If however all intimacy/time together is dropped off all together not just sex maybe have a little chat with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): "Any man who wouldn't want sex is gay"
That's the most stupid answer I have ever seen on this site.
a) that suggests gay people don't have sex
b) assumes that no man could ever possibly suffer from any sort of medical condition or simply be too overworked or stressed out to have sex
Get real. I'd love to see what people would put if a man came here and complained about a woman not wanting sex for three weeks and being told "she must be gay". Jesus.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): give him a surprise and invite him over (if u live in separate places) and give him a dinner and wear some nice clothes any guy who wouldn't want sex is gay.
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