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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 2 years now, I love him, and hes the first guy I have ever fell in love with. We used to talk about the future, and whenever I suggested something to do such as (movies, beach etc.) he would say yes. well, now that I dont see him as frequently as I used to he doesnt really talk about the future anymore and barely says yes to me. He recently thought we should go on a "break" to reappeaciate eachother for less than week, but I told him no, because breaks are useless and I would just rather be single. But now since things feel strange ever since he brought up going on the break, I feel like going on a break for a short period of time would be a good idea. I'm very confused, I love him with all my heart, I'm scared of being hurt and ending up alone. I'm going to be 22 and he is 24, I just need advise bad :(
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reader, dpassa +, writes (30 June 2010):
If he needs a break give it to him, because if not you will eventually break up. Maybe, he just wants to get his thoughts together, and needs time. Guys are not like woman, they need time to think about everything, and he needs to think if his life would be better with you in it, or without you in it. Let him miss you, and if he comes back that means he really loves you, and wants you in his life. If you don't give it to him you will never know. As hard as it may be now, don't call or text him. If he does thats fine that means he is thinking about you. Hope this helps, just be strong.
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