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writes:Im so upset rite now, Im having problams with a guy im sort of seeing but where not in a relationship but sleeping together, anyway a few days ago i gave him a love bite and obviously he noticed it, it wasnt huge and could hardly notice it, Anyway last nite, i txt him seeing if he wanted a lift like i pick him up sometimes, he said no im at home, in which i replyied oh let me cum round then he said no im bout 2 go bed, so i relpyied with A lol not even 2 suck u off-making sure i put lol on end againHe then replyied na not no more, u shoudnt have gave me luv bite,I then replyied im really sorry that i did it, as i didnt usually do it, and asked him if it was still there, Ive not heard anything back from him since and i hate that ive upset him like this As soon as he txt me that i cried, and cant really stop thinking bout it, But then today i was told maybe he was seeing another girl thats why he acted like he did, as he was compleatly find untill yesterday maybe a little off but not much Please was i sooooo in the wrong for doing that to him Or is he proberbly feeling guilty over something Reply to this Question
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reader, Wise Woman of the Forest +, writes (30 June 2010):
 If you're not in a proper relationship, there's a possibility that he's seeing another person, as it's generally acceptable when "seeing somebody", though this is most likely not the reason. I think being "upset" about a love bite is a little petty, though he may have got some stick about it. Don't worry; if he's a nice guy and really loves you, he'll forgive you if he is really upset about it. If not, he's a pig and you can do better :L
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (30 June 2010):
 P.S. Don't know who said he's probably seeing another girl. It sounds like a wild guess to me. He's probably not; he's just very upset with you........sorry....
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (30 June 2010):
I seriously doubt that he's feeling guity. The fact is, you did something he didn't like or want (even though you were not to know that) with the result that even though you apologized, he's basically had it.
You say you're not in a relationship with him but are having sex with him? Why don't you cut your losses? Sounds as if - and I can understand this upset you - you haven't much to lose by bidding adieu to him.....
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