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writes:Hi, I'm 24, and i've been in a great relashionship wit my boyfriend he is 42 my parents hate him because of the age difference and they think he is wrong for me but to be honest he is wonderfulllll,i Love him so much he really cares about me and very serious he asked me to marry him and i said yes but my parents does'nt know yet. They told me if they find out i still talk to him they will not have any relashionship with me at all but i love my parents and i Love my boyfriend what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Amity=Friendship +, writes (2 July 2010):
Okay, the first thing that you have to figure out is:"If I decide to get married to my boyfriend, will he be able to support me?"Second:"Is he worth losing my family over? WIll he always be faithful to me?"If you aren't sure, then I wouldn't give up your family. Because what will you do if you marry him, start a family, then things don't work out? You don't have a family to run to and seek help. You are on your own. If you still want to marry him, then make sure that you have a stable enough home life that, even without your family, you would be able to support yourself should things with him not work out as planned. I don't mean to be a downer or make you paranoid, but I speak from experience here.
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