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writes:hi, my boyfriend and i have the best sex i have ever had in my life. always passionate and honestly he is pretty kinky, bit of a freak. but.... i think we've broken up tonight.!! we fight so much now we barely have any sex, but is more intense that ever each time we do. i've still got 3 kinky outfits i brought on ebay over a month ago that he hasnt even seen yet, and 2 more coming. when am i ever going to be able to wear them confidently now. our sex really took us to another state of mind, i dont think i can be that submissive with anybody other than him.. the thought of never feeling that close to him is killing me..i am really hurt but know it had to end. he keeps lying and i just dont trust him any longer. but is that enough of a reason to end it? i really am torn. Reply to this Question
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reader, RealityChecker  +, writes (30 June 2010):
keep right on down that road you're on and you will find how important sex is. when the 4 kids aint got no daddy and your trying to work 2 jobs to pay the trailor rent.
If SEX is the be-all end-all of your determination of a good relationship, then please have at it. Jerry Springer always needs new people to appear on his show.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010): You're in your 20's and there are PLENTY of guys out there who you will probably have WAY better sex with. Go and find them. This guy is done with you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 June 2010):
"I am really hurt, but knew it had to end. He keeps lying and I just don't trust him any longer"
Yes, that's more than a good enough reason to end it. Your relationship was totally toxic, and if you hadn't ended it,, you'd have just ended up even more of a mess later on. Be thankful there are no kids involved. Cut contact, let him go and meet a new guy.
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