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writes:hey im jenny 18 , iv been with my bf for a year and a half, the other day on the 23/6 somethin happened, wen my bf asked me abou this guy i met in , there was a misunderstandin, he asked abt that guy who lived in germany, so in my head al i remembered about him was in 2008 we met, i was away last year ( 2009) to germany and my bf asked me if i kissed him , and in my head only had 2008 so i went all embarassed and said 'yeah'' thinkn why is he askin me that type of Q, and my bf misunderstood tau i meant last year but i also thought my bf was askin did i kiss him back in 2008. so its really stupid and he went mad and broke up with me. i told him over and over again that i didnt cheat on him but he wont listen to me. its never been this bad between us i love him so much , i want him back :( because really i didnt do anything on him, iv been loyal to my bf im afraid he will go out and meet other girls, hurt me and that this is it between us. i really dont know wat to tink. will he come back to me? we had something so special we wer planning our future together we're both eachothers first love and we both lost our virginity to eachother. i dont know what to do. its just i really cant believe he can treat me like shit because he thought i cheated but i didnt. is there anyway to help this , i dont want this to end i love him and he loves me just he thinks i cheated what should i do? will he come back ?
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reader, MassagePS  +, writes (5 February 2011):
Dump that guy. He's a controlling person and problems lurk.
Find someone who appreciates you.
Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys for your answers, its been a few weeks now and i've realised alot of things . i guess i was just in love with him , i loved him too much but he didnt know. those many times he did everything for me and told me he loved me , but he never trusted me no trust no love then. even the slightest thing could trigger fights between us. we fought too much more than i expected to be fightin with somebody i loved. it wasnt right and yes many times he broke up with me over something stupid. it just all hit me that he hurt me too much those times he broke up with me. i guess he lost a girl that loved him and will be the only to love him this much ever. oh well its his lost. all the things he bought me and did for me , nothing could be compared to the times he hurt me and broke up with me over something stupid. i just realised alot of things after those few weeks. and i dont care anymore. hes not worth it. im stronger now.
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reader, Mama B +, writes (1 July 2010):
Honey if he broke up with you over something so stupid like that, then sweetie i feel he wanted to break up a while ago,he just wanted to find a reason to do it, baby girl best believe this was a goood thing because if it wasn't this reason then it would've been an even more cornier one... YOU'RE YOUNG just be thankful this did'nt happen Ten years down the line!!! keep your head up an Stay srong..
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