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*onfuzzled-one
writes:So, i've been texting this guy for 2 months. I never see him much because we're both busy. When i do see him, we wave, smile, and talk for a few minutes. Anyways, when we text, we have real conversations- we ask eachother questions and really get to know eachother. Recently, he's been asking me questions such as, "have you ever kissed someone?" I took these questions to be hinting towards something, so i took a leap of faith and asked him to hang out some time. His response threw me off, "Ya. Sometime in the future." I don't know what in the world he means by this... I know that he is busy until the end of July, but what does he really mean? Is he not interested? Is he meaning something like "yeah right, in your dreams" or more like "yeah, maybe later"...? I am really confused... I am falling for him, but I don't want to be hurt, so how to i take this response, and what do i do to get a clear answer?
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reader, oneshotofblonde +, writes (1 July 2010):
unfortunately what xanthic said is true. for most guys, when they like a girl, they make an effort cos they would wish to see you every opportunity they get. well, you could try asking again in a casual friend way, and see if he's more compliant.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (1 July 2010):
 If he was really interested, he would make definite plans with you, or at least give a clearer answer. The answer he gave you seems pretty vague and dismissive to me, try backing off for a while and see what he does. If he wants to see you, he'll make it happen.
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