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writes:Hi,I need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, there has been good and bad points and on and off points. After uni I moved with him back to his home town in Northern Ireland. It was there that he cheated on me with an old school friend of his (apparently it was only 3 kisses but, still not the point) I decided that we could move forward slowley after weeks of him begging and saying that it was a stupid mistake. I believe him by the way. After I found out about his infidelity we moved back to England to make a fresh start and it was kind of worked. I am finding it extremely difficult to come to terms with everything and forgive him. BUT to make matters worse I think I fancy/like one of his mates. I can't work out how I feel or what I want. Please don't think I would ever cheat, i would never. I just can't work out what I want or more importantly who I want.HELP! Please
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reader, johannabanana  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 When you are with a person they are the only one you should be thinking about. If they aren't then it is time to take a break and see other people. He kissed another girl and you question being with other people. Maybe you both just need to experience someone else for awhile and see if the person you really want to be with is each other.
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