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She keeps changing her mind how she feels about me

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Question - (30 June 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *ockamhill writes:

"O, swear not by the moon, the fickle moon, the inconstant moon, that monthly changes in her circle orb, Lest that thy love prove likewise variable."(romeo and juliet)

I'm completely in love with this girl and i know she likes me but she's always changing her mind on how she feels about me. she wants to be with me when she's ready to have a boyfriend again but it's so off and on because she's afraid a relationship will ruin our friendship. I just can't stand it. There is nothing more that i want then to be with her. I LOVE HER!!!!!!!!!!! What should I do?

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A male reader, Nockamhill United States +, writes (1 July 2010):

Nockamhill is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Nockamhill agony auntI thank everybody for there advice.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010):

"....Then what shall I swear by?"..."Do not swear at all..or if thou wilt swear by thy gracious self which is the God of my idolatry and I will believe thee"

^-^ sorry had to do that Im obsessed with R&J lol

Anyway..you should talk to her and tell her you want to be with her..and if she cant make you her everything...dont be her "something"

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2010):

Nice quote. Sadly, you'll remember that Romeo and Juliet was also a tragedy, as your relationship with this girl is. And your girl isn't even committed either. On/off relationships never work. Never. There isn't a person I know who has had an on/off relationship and made it work. She just isn't committed enough, and isn't willing to take the risk to find out whether it would work. You need to back away from her, or you'll just end up more and more hurt.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2010):

Ask her why she thinks this and what her fears are, and talk about things. You may be able to dispel her doubts.

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