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My boyfriends brother is acting strange is he flirting wit me or just being nice !!!

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Question - (30 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *ovesick26 writes:

(1).we shall begin with the first time he saw me , well at the time he saw me he had no clue i was dating his brother but he still remebred me standing outside the pub smoking while he was talking to his brother .(2).from the time we were properly introduced he was asking us to go places with him an so we did ~ when we would go out he would send his brother(bf)to get up an sing a song with the band , an he would come down an talk to me then , nothing serious but small talk ,(3).also he asked if i was on facebook , then two days later he added me as a friend on it , we spoke once or twice i spoke first he started jokingly callin me bf manager , an then started saying he must get himself a manager too. i mean manager but i dont know wat kind of manager he means (4). he wished me a happy birthday two hours after it turned twelve before my fella did cos he forgot (5).at his party he kept staring at me also his girlfriend was der an even staring at me while standing over her ,(6). also he was walking by my chair an touched my shoulder an kinda rubbed it or massaged it as he was walking by i dunno bout 10 secs it lasted ,(7)he also couldnt keep his eyes of my boobs while talking to my boyf,(8)he remebers things we slag each other about an stuff i slagged him about on facebook ,(8) he leaned on the back of my chair a few times an our arms were touching ,we went to a local bar me an bf an brother an his gf an everytime i went to bar he was standing rite behind me but didnt say too much to me bout it ,(9) he was talking to me once in a pub when just me an a friend present an he started telling me bout how he couldnt sleep , i was so nervous an i couldn tell wat he was talking about i said i have to go up to my boyfriend an he said sure i'll drop ye up , we ended up leaving an then he came up an give me a little wave when he was leaving an i had give him a wave first ,(10) . he has guided me with his hand touching my back (11). me an bf went out for a meal an he was der working an he got my bf to step in for a while an he came straight down again , was playing wit his ear an he did talk a bit of small talk not much tho , also later his boss came down an sat wit me an boyf an i just for a laugh stuck out my tongue to do a licking action to imitate that my fella is licking his bosses ass an i noticed that the brother licked the side of his lips back at me plus he was looking at me a bit also , wat do u make of this , i get on well with him but i'm not sure if he is just being nice plus i dont think i am going to act on it but i want to know wat his game is cause i want him to stop but i dont want to make a fool out of myself thinking he liked me when he mighten , so looking for a honest answer pls help

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A female reader, lovesick26 United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2010):

lovesick26 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

well i done the deed an asked him straight an this was his reply "sure your wit someone " an then i said i wasnt an he said but sure you'll be back wit him tommorrow as usual " cos we always have rows an then we get back together a few days later an he knows this the brother does , also the brother didnt tell my boyfriend wat i said but i thought he would so i told the boyfriend wat i had said to his brother .an then all hell broke loose but the brother is still talking to me

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A male reader, girl watcher United States +, writes (2 July 2010):

Well, he might just like you as a friend. If I wanted to get your attention and let you know i was interested without incriminating myself, i would maybe gently move your hair away from your face sometime when its in your face looking right at you. if you looked at me funny i would make light of it. Even more agresive i might accidently/intensionally tickle you or hug you and brush your breast looking at you for interest or objection. Has he done anything like this to you. I knew a girl that was dating a this guy once and i really was into her. She seemed warm to me but I still didn't want to get caught trying for her. Helped her off a ladder one time and as i put my hands under her arms to lift her i made my thumbs brush her breasts actually rubbing one of her nipples as they went by,(she was braless). As I set her on the floor she kissed me. We were together for 2 years.

If you want him to try, give him an opening to look at you that way. Maybe dress in a t braless and let him know you saw him looking. What he does next will let you know for sure and you can either close the door or open your arms....

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