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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Is it ok to see a separated man?They are not divorced but looking into getting divorced, he keeps asking me out, says its over, he went back to her a second time for 9 months, they had counselling too, but says he is no longer in love with her and cannot stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of his children. He moved out 4 months ago. They have 2 children age 4 and 7 and they share 50/50 time with their children.We get on really well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): If you want to just be the rebound woman providing sex for a married man who is going through marriage problems then nothing I say will stop you. He wants to pass his time by being with you and may even want a FWB situation. What happens if he wants to try to make his marriage work one last time or heaven fobid, gets a divorce and thwn meets his soulmate who is not you. Too many issues because things are not settled. I firmly belive that women (or men) who conduct 'affairs'with seperated persons before that divorce is finalised only have themselves to blame when the affair turns sour. What are your expectations with this man? Do you want to be in a committed relationship with him? Do you want to mean anything to him? Then stop before it is too late.this man is still legally married and he has not even started any formal seperation/ divorce yet. Seems to me that he is very married indeed! Its been weeks since you posted- what has transpired thus far?
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