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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: hi i am a 19year old girl in relationship with a guy for the past 5years.we both loved each other a lot.but for the last few months we are fighting so often.he uses bad words like hell.i couldnt bear this.i know he is too possessive on me.he always remind me of the bad parts of my life.moreover he has changed a lot.when we just started loving he used to come and meet me anytime when i felt to.but nowadays even if i beg to he is not ready to come.also not ready to talk to me through phone.he cuts the call often or doesn't attend my calls or says he is too busy.when i was doing my higher secondary,i had many friends from my tuition who are boys.out of them a few proposed their love to me.i even shared these to my lover.he was too angry over those boys and scolded them in front of me.i hated that.as these fights with my lover are on the track,i met the guy who loved me deeply in my school days.i like him a lot but dont want to love him as i am already commited.now i think i am in love with this guy.this love rised because of the hugs and kisses he had given me when we met recently.i love this guy so much.i wanted to see him and spend time with him all the time.my lover is inspecting me like cops.now i hate him.i admit i am cheating my lover.but i don't know which one to choose.what shall i do?please help me out.which guy to choose? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, simipinford +, writes (1 July 2010):
hi dear ...am in the same sitution ...b/f been to pocessive but i think it will be good to tell him how u feel ..u love him for five years ...sit n talk to him n see what happens...if he doesnt change then you do what is right for u ...all the best in making your choice
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