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writes:I have known a woman for going on 12 months now. We met via online dating. Everything was going great she was even talking engagement.But latley over the past month she suddenly says she doesnt know how she feels anymore she says she loves me dearly but doenst know if just a friend or more.She is sending out such mixed signals, I have had no contact for a couple of weeks and will hold off until she makes up her mind what she wants to do.One thing she did say is I was thoughtful and she will never find anyone like me but now this. I am so confused right now. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answers, you have all confirmed my own thoughts.
After growing the balls to admit it I have just met someone else last week so will see how that goes.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 July 2010):
I got messed around by a girl like this once. I chose to forget about her. It was a brilliant decision.
Women who can't make their mind up just end up wasting your time. There's either someone else somewhere, or this relationship has been built on quicksand. I'd just tell her you think it's over and move on.
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reader, asap09marc +, writes (27 July 2010):
 just go back to another datin site then.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 The naked truth:
Mixed messages = Forget about her.
If you're so great, why isn't she with you?
If your let your own life hinge on decisions made by others, then you will find yourself going where you wouldn't go and waiting for things that won't happen, all this while you put your own life and wishes on hold. That is what you're doing by "waiting" to see if she makes her mind up. What if she doesn't?
You obviously want to be with her. If you wanted to watch a movie, and couldn't get a ticket, would you wait outside in case someone changes his mind?
This is a lesson we all have to learn the hard way. It's best if you move on.
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