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writes:Ok I'm 22 was in a four year relationship and broke it off due to trust issues in past. Well I started talking to this girl I known for about 4 years I told her I liked her and she said she did too. we have been talking for 2 months and I really like her we started holding hands and we kissed a few times I finally asked her out and she told me she'll get back at me. She said she doesn't want to be the rebound girl but she likes me... But I try to make an effort to hang out with her but she never does and she don't answer my calls/texts some times and I only see her like twice a week and it seem she don't care but when we do hang out she acts like she really likes me by holding my and showing affection... She said she is scared to get with me cuz she doesn't have good luck with relationships... I've never had this problem usually when a girl liked me she would always want to hang or answer my phone calls and vice versa nd I think she might still have feelings for her ex cuz she would say he text or called her and she said it would make her mad but idk if she lying... I need a girls opinion and a guy who has ever gone through this help cuz I'm so confused?!?!??!!
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reader, Firefighter +, writes (30 July 2010):
Firefighter is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I ignored her nd tried to move foward nd she text me she missed me an wants to be my gf she is 20 and is a nurse I'm 22 fire fighter I hope things go gud it feels like we were meant to be I hope she doesn't continue to be vague wit me!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Firefighter +, writes (27 July 2010):
Firefighter is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI was afraid of hearing that I hate it though but it's hard I need a gird stand point on this is she playin hard to get or shouuld I just forget her..... I have tried to ignore nd forget her but then shell text me two days later I miss or can I call u...... So she is being confusing P.s thanks for ur insight On this
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reader, gregory6  +, writes (26 July 2010):
I think she is hedging her bets and keeping you on a string. If she was really interested she would have said so without being vague. She IS being vague and not straightforward. If she is like this at an early stage, imagine what she is going to be like later on.
I think you should cut your losses before you become more attached to her in your mind. I think she is, sadly, playing games with you.
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