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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx guys i checked his sent massages and he never contacted her before. from the email i have noticed that it is linked with another website and im hoping is a spam. i do feel bad abut going through his email, because i do trust his and i never noticed anything not even a little thing from him.
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reader, neadie winters  +, writes (27 July 2010):
if off is it an adverage joe or is it a porn star or something along thise lines because if it the second one relax however if it the first one don't jump down his throat yet it could have be sent to him by a male friend his girl friend . if it wasn't sent to him by a friend have you notice anything werid with him latly it always the small things or if she sent it her self is thier more emails form her does he reply check sent items if you come up empty handed then don't worry about it until you see another one or bring it up have a fight and just deal with it
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): First of all to the people that are having a go at this girl for going through his e-mail... DON'T. You dont know the cicumstances so dont judge.
I think what you need to do is ask him about it. I have been in the exact same position before and it really is heart breaking! Even if he has asked for this picture etc. the girl is obviously a tart with no self respect who sends random lads pictures of herself naked and i think your boyfriend will see her the same way. it was probably innocent even though he is COMPLETLEY in the wrong and shouldnt even think about doing things like that!! But if you love him then is this really worth breaking up over?
Tell him your devistated and that that was his first and last chance and if he does anything like that again tell him its over and tell him he has ALOT of making up to do and that he will have to earn your trust back. You're calling the shots now and if he doesn't care about you enough to just put his tail between his legs and grovel then get rid as he isnt worth your time or tears!! :) good luck sweety! xxxx
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 July 2010):
Did she send it of her own accord? Did he ask for it? Is it porn? Is it a friend that he knows? Did he reply to her?
You need to do a bit of digging and find out the answers to those questions before anyone can really give you proper advice, because there are a lot of different pieces of advice that you need depending on what happened.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): Did he replu? Is it someone he knows?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): Well I do have one question for you, why are you going through HIS email. In my therory if your in his email it says to me that you dont trust him very well. And what did you expect going through his email. Of cource your going to find something. And most likely it was spam so dont get all bent out of shape about it. And if worse comes to worse just ask the dude about it. And if you truely trust him on his response then I see no issues. And anyway its just a picture!!!!
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 well is it spam? or a girl he knows? is it porn?
I'd only be concerned if it is someone he actually knows.
Perhaps check if he replied to her at all. Because if he did, that's a bad sign, if he just deleted it though it could be good, it shows that he might have not cared.
he can't help it if a girl who wants him sends him nude pics of herself, its how he reacts that matters.
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