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age
41-50,
*anice25
writes: Hello everybody. There's the thing. I have recently started going to this new Café/Restaurant near my house and the male owner who is higly attractive started paying me some attention. He is married and has a kid, and I live with my boyfriend.The thing is he stares at me sometimes which i return as well.Find it hard not to stare back since he's so good looking.lol.He always tries to be around when i'm there,and most of the times he tries to get my attention by touching me either on my back or my arm or my waist.It is driving me crazy, cause i can´t stop thinking about him. I feel like he is not happy in his marriage anymore. They must be married like for 9 or 10 years now. I was wondering if he likes me or is it just my impression?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): Ty for all ur answers
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reader, karen1989 +, writes (26 July 2010):
Married men are not worth the hassle! Trust me you think its a bit of harmless flirting now but if you act on this it will destroy your relationship, his marraige and his kids minds. Do you really want to be responsible for that? Whats more important love or lust? If you love your boyfriend you will not act on this.
I wish you luck :)
Karen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): so what do you plan to do when we tell u he likes you? Break up with your boyfriend and have a fling with a married man? Well if you are satisfied with being only a side kick,put a smile on your face,u just found your dream man.but if you want a steady relationship,with a person you can call your own,i'd suggest you go back home to your boyfriend and work things out.you'l be saving alot of people from loads of heartache including yourself in the long run.
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reader, dyeruz +, writes (26 July 2010):
He's staring at you touching you so he's not happy in his marriage, or is it he knows he's got an easy potential piece on the side because even though she has a live in boyfriend she still goes to coffee shops were she's flirting with it's attractive owner. So what if you think he likes you, a) He's married with a kid and b) You've got a boyfriend, question is are you happy in your relationship?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 July 2010):
No. What's happened is you're showing him attention, and like so many married men, he's thinking about using you. Does he fancy you? Probably. Will he use you? Yes. Will you end up miserable? You can bet your life on it. Go home to your boyfriend and start working on your relationship. Don't touch a married man, or you'll be in tears with a bad reputation and nothing left.
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