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writes:Ok, a few weeks ago i had the opportunity to have sex with a girl for the 1st time, but i held out...because I am un-circumcised and was afraid of what she would think because i know most people are circumcised and i know she had been with a couple other people in the past who were probably circumcised. Sooo my question, mainly for the girls i guess, is would u care if your boyfriend was circumcised or not?? Reply to this Question
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reader, JK8833 +, writes (26 July 2010):
No, if I was really into the guy I wouldn't care. I think if I was the girl in the situation I would be grateful for a little heads up though. I was 23 before I ever saw a man with an uncircumsized penis and that was in nursing school and in a clinic setting. I knew what it was but just for a second I was taken by surprise just because I had never seen one and I have seen a lot (once again because nursing school, not because I am slutty). Anyway, I think if I was in a relationship with a guy I'd want to know before the event. I'd just want to know if there was something I needed to do differently to make it good for him (like what areas are most sensitive etc.) I would not be grossed out by it and not have sex with him because of it. I'd probably be curious to know what sex was like with someone who was uncircumsized!
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reader, Weird_Chick +, writes (26 July 2010):
 nope! :) my boyfriend is uncircumsized and i dont care! :) i dont see why your chick would judge you on that, if people are dating and they really love eachother, then how their body is really shouldnt matter. :) oh and um, you might wanna tell her that your uncircumsized before you like do get ready to do that, like dont supprise her cuz then if she is one of those people that would flip out then like she might need like some time to think about it, but it will more than likely be ok :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): No I wouldn't mind an uncircumcised partner. I would need to be in a loving and exclusive relationship to do so, though. Then I would love my partner uncircumcised or not. If she truly love you, she won't mind at all.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (26 July 2010):
 I see that your country flag is USA, but are you originally from another country? Even though most guys in USA are circumcised, in most countries, the majority of guys are not circumcised. No, I do not know this from personal experience ~blushes~ but I have travelled and talked to people, and read about this. :)
Why do you think the girl would judge you because of your uncircumcised status?
I don't think you should have sex with her. I wouldn't judge anyone, but it doesn't sound like this is a serious relationship. I don't mean to be mean but wait to have sex until you are serious and mutually love someone.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (26 July 2010):
 Nah, it's more about the guy than if he's been circumsized. Is this the girl who has a big mouth and would talk to people about your first sexual intercourse? I advised you not to have sex with her unless you were prepared to have your "performance" aired and judged by this girl.I'm still pretty convinced that having sex with this girl is NOT a good idea. Find one who cares about you and doesn't turn it into some kind of bizarre pissing match with you.
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