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writes:Hello all . Today I had a vision . shall we say . and I want to know if any girls or guys of any age would agree with this . and some would even say this is the way it always happens. Ive always always always said . I have to be physically attracted to a woman to be emotionally attracted to her.. I always said I wouldnt even talk to a girl if she wasnt attractive . I wanted to wait until the right one came along . if that meant being single for 6 months .. a year whatever. it would be worth the wait . well ive always had good looking girlfriends. and Im about to be 22 . and the recent one ive had was a beautiful woman . i thought she was the one that was gonna be the one worth waiting . but the more i got to know her. the more i searched into her. after a year and a half. she had me . but she was also still looking . and now when she hasnt found what she wanted . she still comes back . she loved attention . thrived off of it . she would give her number to anyone . just one of the many features of having a really attractive gf . they have to much baggage. they cannot be trusted. I havent met one yet. and its a shame because there are plenty of good looking men out there who are genuine good guys . ( but then again you ladies could say the same . ) and attractive women have ruined my passion for having a relationship at all. I would rather live alone and not ever have a relationship again . but on the other hand . Id rather date a woman that is unattractive . not super hot . one I dont really have to worry about some guy trying to pick up . just a good girl. throw the looks out the window. . does this come with time ? just done dealing with everything attractive people bring into the relationship.. and just after time your fed up with it ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): "If all the world were playing holidays, to sport would be as tedious as to work......." (Henry IV, Part 1).
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reader, LovePanda +, writes (26 July 2010):
 It does take time to find "The One". Be it weeks, months, or even years, it will take a long time. And there will be lying, denile, and heart break on the way. But just because one relationship went wrong doesn't mean that you should just give up! Give yourself time to get back on your feet, and start looking again. And don't go after only the attractive women. I believe that looks don't matter. Personality matters. It doesn't matter how the one for you looks to everyone else. What's on the inside makes her the most beautiful person in the world. I hope this answers your question. Good luck finding that special person! :-]
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