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Did I really choose my boyfriend over my best friend? And If so why is that bad?

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Question - (26 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, *ver..worried. writes:

Did I really choose my Boyfriend over my best friend? And If so why is that bad?

Soo, My Friends (Guys) and My Boyfriend have a very .... Crud sexually sense of humor sometimes. They know how to joke around and so do I. Sometimes we'll be joking around he'll slap my butt and tell my Go make me a sandwich. All in fun and games. We also do Kiss in school kindda a lot when we first started going out cause we were both really busy and didnt see each other any other time much cause of Finals. It was nothing like full on tongue, NOTHING like that.

One day I got just a Little bit upset with him, i forget why and my friend for the reasons above said I should dump him? I was like what! He's liked me for a YEAR before we started dating and I liked him bout the same. We Are both head over heels for each other, yea we fight but nothing huge. So I said no, and she started off saying I choose him over her .... Now we no longer speak and she still blames him even saying he cheated on me with him cause he put grass in her shirt once. I want to yell at her and tell her to grow up, she's not 5 anymore she's 16.

I wasn't wrong was I?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2010):

It's me again ;o). Does your friend or ex friend (the girl) have a boyfriend? Maybe she's just jealous or something... not necessarily jealous that she's not the one dating YOUR boyfriend but jealous of the fact she isn't getting any kisses and stuff from someone. Jealous that she's not in a relationship.

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A female reader, Over..worried.  Canada +, writes (26 July 2010):

Over..worried. is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Over..worried.  agony auntOh believe me if it was that simple I would.

And No I was sitting there when he supposedly "cheated" on me believe me it didn't happen. We share the same friend group .... and he's not that kinda of guy.

And Her problem is that some how by me Kissing my boyfriend and spending time with him at school. Means I am ignoring her. And Idk.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010):

This is confusing. Is your friend (girl) hitting on you or something (she started off saying I choose him over her)??? If she was a true "FRIEND" then she'd still be your friend even if she didn't like the guy. Saying that your boyfriend cheated on you isn't very nice. But then again what if it's true... is there any proof? Video-cam perhaps LOL, but then again at your age that's CP. Anyway maybe you could at least get your boyfriend to say sorry about all the grass stuff and then you can all become FRIENDS or something.

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