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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Help....I'm married but have feelings for another guy....we used to be friends awhile back....he was there for me when my husband told me he wanted a divorce....but a month later I decided to give my marriage a 2nd try...now he has been avoiding me since.....but I know I have strong feelings for this other guy and my marriage is not a happy one to the point I'm wondering if divorce is the path for me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): you cannot string both your husband and this other man along. get out of your marriage instead of wasting your husbands time and life. you have already decided that you want to be with another man therefore your marriage has failed.
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male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 July 2010):
You both decided to give this marriage another try, and this 3rd guy rightfully stayed away. You can't give your marriage another try if you have this guy hanging around like a safety net or something. So, decision time. Are you going to go back to the marriage you wanted to save, or are you going to serve up divorce papers tomorrow? Make the decision. And remember that the grass is often greener on the other side. Personally, I'd focus on the marriage for a set limit of 6 months. If nothing has changed, end it and move on.
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