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30-35,
*oungAndDumb
writes:Ok so my ex boyfriend and I of 12 months broke up in march because some girl answered his phone acting like she was having sex with him when I was states away. We stopped talking and I was upset so I ignored him when he tried getting back with me. I met another guy and I have been with him ever since. Well, one day in March I foundout who that girl was, and it was one of my old friends so I called her out on it one day when I saw them walking together into Walmart with one of his friends. She called me saying she was gonna fight me beat my ass and would text me from his phone talking shit to me saying it was him but i knew it wasnt because I know how he texts. Anyways, that girl put harrassment charges on me and my sisters with FALSE evidence and I guess the police told me that he was telling them that I sliced his tires. (You see, the night his tires got sliced him and I were on good terms and I was with my new boyfriend) He called me saying he was going to effin kill me and that I better hide.. All this crazy stuff. I guess the worst part about that situation is that out of everyone he chose to blame me when he should know me better than that. I would never do that to him. Anyways, after I got that call from the police and had to sign the paper and get my court date, I decided to make statements about them. I wasnt going to but since they did, why should I be nice?? Well i have court on the 2nd for them and Im feeling very worried. I saw my ex at the motocross races this weekend and it made me sad, he looked at me in a sad way and was walking everywhere I went. I miss that boy and I really wish things wouldnt have went that way. I want to take charges off him but I feel like if I do, he is still going to turn on me for that coniviving bitch. Im moving on the 6th to illinois to play soccer (i got a scholarship) and Im really looking forward to starting over. So, what should I do? I want things to end easier with me and him and they cant. I dont want him to hate me but why should I be mrs nice girl if he is gonna stab me in the back? How do I make things better? what should I do to say sorry? Please help me! :(
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 July 2010):
More to the point, why are you trying to make things better? This guy threatened your life. His girlfriend that he cheated with threatened you. And instead of doing what needs to be done, which is to make the statement, prove you weren't the one slashing the tyres, get a restraining order and just get this vile guy out of your life, you're acting like Little Red Riding Hood and walking straight to the Wolf's door.
Stop thinking about ending this on good terms. The guy is a vicious cheat who doesn't care about you. Just go to court, say your bit, prove you weren't there and get away from him. This isn't going to end happily. Just end it.
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