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writes:This question is going to be a short one. I had a dream last night and I dont really understand quite what it means. I was dreaming about this guy that I'm in love with, he is married,in my dream he got divorced. He left his wife after a year of marriage. In real life he doesnt see his wife that much because of their work hours. Does he really love her? What does this dream mean?
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reader, beautifuldisaster0317 +, writes (26 July 2010):
beautifuldisaster0317 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for your responses, they have been helpful. I will try your suggestions out and see how ther work. Again Thankyou.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (26 July 2010):
 Beautiful,
Thanks for the followup. I am glad to hear that you have your head on straight regarding married men.
About dreams. There are several kinds of dreams. Some are meaningless, some are just wish fulfillment, like daydreams, some are erotic, if you believe the bible some may tell the future (prophetic dreams). Freudian psychoanalysis says that some dreams are our subconscious mind trying to communicate with our conscious mind. This kind of dream often has symbols that may confuse you if you don't have a guide. There are many guides available, I use Dreammoods.com I find their search function easy to use. Some will say that it is not the best guide available but it is a good place to start.
If you seriously want to know more about your dreams, or if the dream reoccurs a few times, then you should analyze it. Leave a note pad and pen near your bed. When you wake from a dream write down everything you can recall. Write fast as you will find that the dream will fade from your memory quickly if you concentrate on the mechanics of writing nicely. Then take your list of symbols to a dream guide like dreammoods.com and look up the symbols. Think about how they apply to things happening in your life.
I still say a dream about your "crush" is most likely wish fulfillment. But, for example, a dream about an ex boyfriend is more likely a warning about your current relationship, and not a sign of wanting to get back with the ex at all. So you can see how it can get confusing.
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reader, beautifuldisaster0317 +, writes (26 July 2010):
beautifuldisaster0317 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your response. I haven't been messing around with him because of course I wouldnt want a cheater. My relationship with him is far more different than that. I would never think of messing around with a married man in that sense. When I say im in love with him I mean like a ``Crush''
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (26 July 2010):
Sounds like a straight erotic wish fulfillment dream. Prophetic dreams are extremely rare, if that was what you were hoping. Your description was quite brief, but I didn't spot any obvious symbols.
The real question on my mind is what are you doing messing with a man in the first year of his marriage? Why would you want a relationship with a cheater?
FA
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