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36-40,
*Lindy87
writes:Alright, so there is this PERFECT guy who likes me.I met him online and we went out on a date and he seems too good to be true. Personality wise. He opened doors for me, paid for the entire date, actually listens to what I say. He seems to actually like me. I'm used to dating assholes and players, because I usually like the chase. I'm not used to being the one chased and for some reason its really confusing me why part of me wants to book it from this guy. He told me that he can't believe I'm single and that he's never met anyone like me. He truly really likes me. So why don't I like him as much as he likes me? We only gone out two times and I had a great time on both dates and I do want to get to know him more, but I think I'm weary just because he's three steps ahead of me emotionally. So how do I get to where he is?
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (26 July 2010):
That's one for the ages, lady. Why do women go for the badboy when the gentlemen are beating down their door? I hope someone here knows the answer, because I sure don't.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (26 July 2010):
 Just give it time. Date him a bit more and see how you feel. Anything out of the ordinary for us can feel uncomfortable, even when it's the best thing for us. He sounds like a great catch. I think he diserves a real chance. Take it slow, and see what happens.
You don't like him as much as he does you because he's different than your "type." You go for assholes and players, so there is a level of attraction that you're not experiencing right now. That's natural but I hope you give him a chance.
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